chikaustin

February4th

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One of the reasons why I love this blogging community so much is the exchange of wonderful ideas.  I do admit, that it can get exhausting having all of these wonderful ideas at your finger tips.  The pressure to do more, make more and be better at it all.  So exhausting in fact, that sometimes I just quit.  I don’t do more, I don’t make more and I sure don’t care if I’m getting better at it.  Such a time happened to me back in the fall when I just quit it all for a while.  I felt like I couldn’t compete.  I couldn’t keep up.  I’ll never be able to sew as good as all of you.  I’ll never be able to knit properly.  Heck, I can hardly pack my kids lunch and get her out the door on some days much less come up with a cute shot of my cup of tea.

I have found that there has to be a healthy balance to it all.  So now I’ve created a folder on my desktop and save ideas I find that I’d like to do someday.  I might get to 2% of them and you know what… that’s okay.

I think so many times we look at other peoples lives, either in person or on the blogs and think the grass is so much greener.  Her life must be better since she can quilt.  She must have it all figured out since she has a craft.  I bet she would never yell at her kids.  You know what I think?  I think we’re all doing just fine.  You and me.  We are just fine.  Just the way we are.  We all have our gifts. And as a good friend told me a while back “Good is good enough.”  Write that one down.  Put it on the fridge.  Remind yourself daily so you don’t feel the pressure to be better.  You are good enough.

handmade valentines

And since it is not one of my gifts to come up with great crafty ideas, I love you crafty mama’s that excel in it. I found both of these ideas on the blogs.  I found the bookmark idea from my sweet friend Liz on her blog.  You simply take paint samples, round the edges with a scrapbook paper rounder, punch a hole in the top, attach a ribbon, write a sweet phrase and voila.  A cute little bookmark to be used as a valentine. I also saw this idea of using a ball jar and filling it with candy to give to the teachers.

And that, my friends, is why I stick to this blogging thing.  Not to get overwhelmed with the thoughts that I’m not good enough, but to share in this wonderful community of mamas that create and inspire.  To pass on good ideas, to encourage us all that we are all doing just fine and to remind you that ‘good is good enough.’

13 Comments

  • Comment by misschris — February 4, 2009 @ 3:28 pm

    Amen, sister.

    To this I will add “Done is better than Perfect,” which I read somewhere once and have to remind myself often.

  • Comment by marjorie — February 4, 2009 @ 4:12 pm

    Yes, there are days when I can barely load up the kids and leave the house, too! (like today!!) And this is a good reminder… a mom in a crazy moment could forget that she is “good enough.” ;)
    We ARE just fine.

    And do you think the people at the paint store mind if you stock up on 25 red paint samples? just wondering.

  • Comment by chikaustin — February 4, 2009 @ 4:15 pm

    you know marjorie, i did think about that. they don’t pay any attention to you anyway. go to a big box place. they’ll never miss ‘em! :)

  • Comment by Our Green Nest — February 4, 2009 @ 4:43 pm

    Great post. Very well said and so very true!

  • Comment by Oso — February 4, 2009 @ 4:54 pm

    i love that bookmark idea.

  • Comment by Manoute — February 5, 2009 @ 6:31 am

    I agree :o )))

  • Comment by misty — February 5, 2009 @ 11:42 am

    I have a folder on my laptop and on my desktop… I will never get to all of it, but I aspire to it…

    I haven’t done a crafty thing since Christmas. I feel horrible. I had such Valentine aspiritions and now… *sigh* there’s only a week left.

  • Comment by Amanda — February 6, 2009 @ 10:27 am

    The day I start feeling pressure because my blog isn’t “good enough” is the day I stop keeping one. Ditto re my crafts. The blog isn’t meant to be a measuring stick of you and how good you are at things. It’s just meant to be a place to share, whatever that may be. And crafts, at least for me, is at its essence a form of therapy. I don’t care if the things I make are better or worse than the things someone else makes. I’m just happy to be inspired at all. So just enjoy, mmmkay? :)

    PS – I heart the font in your.. oh what’s that thing called… the bar at the top. It’s a good Austin font, no? Too bad I’m in Dallas now. :-/

  • Comment by Alexis — February 9, 2009 @ 5:56 pm

    Thanks for reminding me!

  • Comment by Dani — February 13, 2009 @ 11:02 am

    This is the new mantra with my fellow Kindergarten teachers. A couple of us are in the “it has to be perfect, totally original, cool, etc.” crowd and it can take a lot out of a person! I have been telling myself this on the homefront too. It’s not as easy for me to let it go at home, but I am trying. It’s nice to know that someone else out there feels as I do. I am working on getting my blog up and going. That alone has been on the “to do” list for what…a two years now? And I agree that a picture of my “cute cup of morning tea” will not be uploaded. I am good to grab a can of Diet DP.

  • Comment by Jennifer — February 14, 2009 @ 10:38 am

    I came across your site while reading another blog. I am new to blogging and I am already feeling the way you described. I will say that this whole experienced has changed my life, it helps me to pay attention to the little things, but then there is the pressure to take a great photo! I just remind myself that I am doing this for me and my family and nobody else. Your entry brought me to tears, but also gave me a boost. Thank you. I haven’t read any other part of your site as of yet, but based on this one, you have gained a new blog buddy :)

  • Comment by jesse — February 18, 2009 @ 12:50 am

    I’m so glad that I’m not alone in the whole bit about never being equal to all the other amazing crafting geniouses out there (and all those perfect spellers too)!!! Yes your good, my good, the lady down the streets good is good enough! So glad I stumbled upon your blog I will be adding you to my list of blogs to visit!

  • Comment by Lisa Clarke — February 23, 2009 @ 9:39 am

    “I can hardly pack my kids lunch and get her out the door on some days much less come up with a cute shot of my cup of tea.”

    I just had to tell you this line cracked me up! And I can identify ;-)

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