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July20th

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Thank you all so much for the sweet comments about my little nest in the last post.  I can’t even begin to tell you how long my bedroom has gone neglected.  I should have taken the before shot to give you the whole picture, it was a mess.

I tell you, it’s the pregnancy.  If you want to redo your house, get pregnant.  It’s a sure fire way of getting organized and getting things done.  The fun part is that I was able to reuse just about everything in that picture. The only new thing I went out and bought was the lamps… at Marshalls.  The rest I just had around the house.  Tucked into closets and drawers.  Shameful.  I know.  It’s all about repurposing what you have.  The budget friendly way to decorate.

This weekend was my sweet hubby’s birthday so we had family over for a fajita cook-out.  Nothing like standing over a hot grill in 100 plus degree weather.  Yay Texas!  I wouldn’t even venture outside to take a picture for you.  Sorry.  I love you, but I have to draw my limits somewhere.

birthday cake

So I stayed inside and made this cake.  Ain’t she a beauty.  Although, when you make a cake like this you get the resounding ‘well aren’t you Martha Stewart’ comments.  Good times.  Sometimes I get all discombobulated in my head when people say things like that to me.  I did not grow up in a June Clever household.  As a child, I wasn’t around sewing, knitting or baking.  So as a mom, I work really hard to do all of this.  Really hard.  I can’t stress that enough. It does not come naturally.  Not.  One.  Bit.

So, all of this to say, thank you for your sweet comments you leave me.  They really reassure what I do at home as a stay-at-home mom with a masters degree.  Sometimes feeling that loss of purpose.  Sometimes wanting to pull my hair out.  Many times saying things I swore I’d never say as a mom.  And remembering that I always swore I’d never stay at home.  But one glimpse at my first child when she was born and I was sold.  Done.  How can I not be home, trying to do my best.  For me and my children.

So please remember that this is just a glimpse of my life.  A screen shot, if you will, of our home.  I show you the pretty things.  The things that inspire me, in hopes that they will inspire you.  I tell you the real stories, with hopes that you can relate.  Thanks for joining me in this journey.  It’s one heck of a roller coaster.

10 Comments

  • Comment by Our Green Nest — July 20, 2009 @ 11:16 am

    I love this post Jade! We just got back from Port A yesterday and I’m going to email you this week or next with some info I want to share! Talk soon! :)

  • Comment by Di — July 20, 2009 @ 12:11 pm

    Your cake looks amazing and a fajita cook out sounds like a lot of fun. Not being a mum, but being around them a lot, I realise that it happens to everyone – the things they never thought they’d say, the bribing that goes on for a little peace etc.etc. Don’t put yourself down! You are doing a great job engaging your children in a creative, participative, caring life style!

  • Comment by mayaluna — July 20, 2009 @ 11:29 pm

    I love this post, Jade! What an amazing writer you are… truthful and sweet. Martha’s got nothing on YOU!
    xox

  • Comment by dana — July 21, 2009 @ 2:15 am

    You seem put things so perfectly. I guess that’s why you’re a writer! :)
    I worked full-time for years in my career before having kids and yes, so many days I scratch my head and think, what am I doing? But then those tender moments (that I would have missed out on) make me realize, I’m so glad to be a stay at home mom. You are doing wonderful things and um….seem like you make a freaking awesome looking cake. So you can take every Martha comment in stride.

  • Comment by karin — July 21, 2009 @ 5:45 am

    Yum, that cake looks delicious. And for the rest: I know how you feel, I know how it is, the mom-thing, the doing-things-you-never-thought-you’d-ever-do-thing. I just wanted to let you know that you are indeed very inspiring. Thank you for that.

  • Comment by Amy — July 21, 2009 @ 9:57 am

    Jade, you are so awesome. I love reading your posts, and they truly do make me feel less alone! You are an incredible Mom (which, forgive me for saying, but I kind of get the impression that Martha was not), and an incredible person. You inspire me with every post…xox.

  • Comment by Ruth — July 21, 2009 @ 1:08 pm

    Being at home is hard but very rewarding. Your kids will thank you when they are older. No one else could do a better job. They learn from you, work with you and know you love them.

    The cake is amazing.

    Ruth

  • Comment by Andrea — July 23, 2009 @ 1:03 pm

    It is wonderful to hear about your efforts to parent and create a home. Taking some inspiration from you! Thank you.

    p.s. I haven’t forgotten your doll pattern…I WILL send it. I will, I will! :)

  • Comment by Marjorie — July 23, 2009 @ 1:57 pm

    beautiful post. exactly.
    it doesn’t come natural to me, either… but when I had Grace I knew I couldn’t leave her with anyone else. sometimes it’s a strugle, but it’s worth it!

  • Comment by Valarie Budayr — July 29, 2009 @ 5:33 pm

    That is a really beautiful cake. I really liked reading this post. It’s a great reminder to continue to live creatively. ……no matter what. Your children are so lucky to have you to stay home with. :) Best wishes.

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